This piece is a little different than what I usually write about. As a life coach, I usually write about lessons on personal development in my life. But I also consider myself a storyteller. This piece is a lot more personal. This is about the time when I first moved back to New York City after going through a divorce, and started dating again. I hope you enjoy this short story from me.
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Ten Years ago, fresh from my divorce, I moved back to my hometown New York City, after living in the Midwest for 15 years. I know. It’s usually the other way around. Girls from the Midwest moving to New York City to live out their dreams. However, in my case, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, gave this New York City girl that chance.
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Milwaukee was home base to two major retailers. Kohl’s and Bon-Ton. I worked for Bon-Ton, which was similar to Macy’s. I was very fortunate to work in Bon-Ton’s special events department. I remember my first day at Bon-Ton. Being taken around the office, which was above the main store at the Grand Avenue mall in downtown Milwaukee, and seeing three people standing in an office holding up and talking about a shoe. I felt like I had died and gone to heaven. What kind of wonderland was I in? How did I not think about getting a job in corporate retail before? This was amazing!
My division coordinated events, from fashion shows, beauty events, and contests, for our 272 stores around the country. It was a fun dream job. And I was able to live out every fashion girl’s dream when our team was called to work on several fashion shows with none other than the style guru himself, Tim Gunn.
At the time, Project Runway was one of the hottest shows on television, and Tim its host. He was also the Chief Creative Officer for Liz Claiborne, where he traveled around the country introducing their Fall and Spring lines. We were fortunate that our stores were often chosen to host these events. Working with Tim did not disappoint. He was always the consummate professional on and off screen. Whenever job assignments came up to work with Tim, everyone’s hands went up. That wasn’t the case for every celebrity we worked with.
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Three years later, I left Milwaukee and Bon-Ton, and returned back home to New York City due to the divorce. I eventually landed a job through friends freelancing for a special events company coordinating press events for fashion and beauty brands. My professional life came full circle when the company got a job styling the dressing room for Project Runway. I hoped to run into Tim and surprise him now that I was back and working in New York. But alas, Parson’s was closed the days we were there. And Tim? He was nowhere in sight. Obviously, I would have been more excited to see Tim than he of me, but a girl can dream, can’t she?
Special events is hard work pulling all of the logistics and details together. It’s also hard physical work. You’re lifting heavy boxes. Hauling things around. Often in a dress and heels. It’s not uncommon to be at an event from 8 am until midnight. A successful event is when attendees don’t see the craziness behind the scenes and just have a great time.